by Suzanne Bandick

What is wrong with those dating sites for mature people over 50; especially for those that have endured a divorce?  Maybe lots. Maybe nothing. But first, before I answer this question, I have lots of questions for you;

  • Why do so many people find true love partners but not you?
  • What are they doing that you are not doing?
  • Have all the good ones gotten away?
  • Is it true that there’s no one out there for you?
  • Is this as good as it will get?
  • Do you feel there’s a betrayal in love?

You know, so many people over 50 are finding love and happiness.  So before I answer the main question, it’s time to be really honest with yourself.

Could you be the common denominator? Interesting thought, isn’t it? Could that possibly be true?  I say this with love; sometimes it’s not easy to look in the mirror and find the problem.

So what does it really take to build healthy relationships and not just survive divorce but thrive after divorce?

Maybe deep down you don’t believe you deserve that beautiful love relationship. Maybe you are bringing your past baggage into your future with you. If so, what kind of message and energy would you be putting out to the world? Will that energy make you attractive to the right person and help you fall in love again?

Let’s do a test.

What if I tell you that you are amazing, loveable, and have a lot to offer?  Would you accept it?  Or would you push it away expecting another heartbreak? What if you were on a date and your date told you that you are amazing and they really liked you, would you believe them? Or would you have a fear that you are still healing after your divorce or healing after betrayal? If you did have doubt and fear what do you think will happen? Maybe the same things have been happening over and over again. Humm…

So is it the dating site for people over 50 the actual issue or is it the people and their mindset and attitude that make a dating site for mature people after divorce successful?

To move forward with success, you must believe and expect you can heal from divorce and fall in love again.  It’s a simple path…

  1. Believe in yourself.
  2. Believe in the possibility and expect to find true love

You see, it does not matter how much you believe in finding true love if you don’t have belief in yourself and all you have to offer.  Without such elegant and simple beliefs, how could you fall in love again?

Author Suzanne Bandick with her husband of 39 years, Shawn.

So back to the main question;

Do dating sites for divorced people over 50 years-old work?  Or does some healing from divorce needs to happen?

If you are ready to take this positive step forward, visit me, Suzanne Bandick, on my site at

About Author:  Suzanne Bandick is a lifelong experienced relationship expert.  She’s been involved in life coaching for success since 1992 and has helped her clients achieve great success in their relationships.  She has mentored with the world-renowned Bob Procter, from The Secret and Law Of Attraction. Originally from Canada, Suzanne is married, a world traveler, and currently calls Mexico her home.


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